Why would I
want to join a fraternity? I can make friends fine on my own.
Joining a fraternity is about much more than just making
friends. While one of the biggest benefits of going Greek is that
you form close, often lifelong friendships with the people you
meet (who, like you, chose to go Greek, so you all have something
in common that you are seeking), it also affords you many
opportunities to meet people you otherwise wouldn't. There's
nearly 50,000 students at the University of Florida, all of them
involved in classes, social activities and a variety of
extracurriculars, so oftentimes some freshmen are overwhelmed.
Going Greek ensures you a large group of people to see and
socialize with often, providing stability during a time of change
for you. Moreover, the bonds you form with people in the
fraternity (and other Greek organizations, such as sororities) are
unique and special. You all join because of something that draws
you to the house, and you will likely have more things in common
than you would with the average person in your dorm or class.
I'm worried
about my grades if I join; how are grades at Alpha Epsilon Pi?
It's a good thing you asked, because now we get a chance to
gloat over being the winners of the Governor's Cup, awarded to the
fraternity with the highest overall GPA. We at AEPi are strong
believers in the ideology that studying is a crucial part of
college (sorry, but it is; without good grades, you might not be
at the University very long, and then it's fun for no one, so we'd
prefer to keep you around longer). We have a special Study Room in
the house where there are many desks, computers, study supplies
and a futon so that brothers can always have a quiet place to go
study in the house. We also have brothers in practically every
major offered by the University, ranging from Engineering to
Political Science, Architecture to Criminology, and everything in
between. We also have a large variety of Business majors,
Journalism majors, Pre-Med majors, Pre-Law majors and, of course,
Leisure Studies (we also have many graduate students active,
including several in the highly-respected Levin School of Law and
the Medical School). This means that whatever class you take, the
odds are someone in the house has taken it, so someone is always
available to provide help, plus old books and notes. No one in
AEPi feels afraid to ask anyone else for help, because everyone is
very open and always willing to help each other out.
How are the
dues at AEPi?
Very, very cheap. In fact, we oftentimes pay you to join.
Just kidding! But in all seriousness, the dues at AEPi are
completely reasonable, and there are individual payment plans and
payment schedules so that anyone who wants to be involved can
join.
What if I'm
unsure of rushing? Should I do it?
Stupid question. Of course you should. Why the hell not? If you
don't like it, you don't join, and that's that.
I'm really
only joining a fraternity to get chicks (or dudes, whatever your
preference is, we don't discriminate). What kind of social events
do you have?
Well, it's great that you ask, because we understand that
many people in college are very interested in a chance to meet
people for the purposes of dating. We are very eager to help
people meet people they would be interested, which is why we have
plenty of social events. We have one gigantic theme party in the
spring, called "AEPi Amazon." In the fall, we have our
road-tripping date function "Road Rally," which involves a
scavenger hunt across large portions of Florida, always winding up
somewhere fun for us to have a nighttime activity and party
together. We have "late nights" at the house after football games
to celebrate our victories (or, much less often, to drown our
sorrows) throughout the semester, in addition to several "late
nights" thrown just to have a party. We have 4-5 social events
with sororities, 3 date functions and a variety of other events.
In the spring, we also have our Formal, where you wear (you
guessed it) formal wear at a lovely hotel in some exciting city.
How about
pledging?
Alpha Epsilon Pi is a nationally non-hazing fraternity. No,
seriously. We mean it. Pledging may involve a committment of time,
but at no point will we ever force or even ask you to do anything
that is in any way dangerous, unsettling or that we ourselves
wouldn't immediately do. Nothing dangerous, nothing gross, nothing
sick, nothing strenuous, but just a committment of time to learn
about the ideals, the brotherood and the brothers of AEPi. It is
simply a time to get to know the brothers and your pledge
brothers, and we would never force you to do anything physically
or mentally strenuous. Also, just like rushing, if you decide it's
not for you, you are always free to leave, and no one will fault
you -- it's your life, it's your college experience, and you
should do what makes you have the best possible time.
What kind of
time committment should I expect?
The time committment, like most other aspects of the
fraternity, is wholly up to you -- you can participate in as many
(or as few) activities and events as you desire. Conversely, the
amount of activity you put forth is directly proportional to the
amount of enjoyment you will likely receive; the more active you
are, the more fond memories you will have, the more people you are
likely to meet, the more fun you are likely to have, and the more
overall experiences you are able to enjoy.
How
involved is Alpha Epsilon Pi on-campus?
Really, really ridiculously involved. Around campus we
are involved in:
·
Student Government (several of our brothers have been
recent Student Body Presidents)
· Student Senate (yep, in addition to
Senators, we've had brothers be the Student Senate President)
· Homecoming (we've had a number of people in
positions including General Chairman)
· Gator Growl (same thing, this is getting
repetitive, but you get the idea, this is getting old)
· Homecoming Parade (yes, we've had a number
of people involved including assistant directors and numerous
Parade Directors)
· ACCENT Speaker's Bureau (surprise surprise,
numerous brothers have been a variety of positions, including a
number of Chairmen)
· Florida Blue Key (yes, in addition to a
number of brothers in this prestigious organization, several
have gotten leadership positions including the most recent
Florida Blue Key President)
· IDEAL (if you don't know what that is,
that's fine, it's a very active leadership group thingie)
· The Cicerones (those spunky tour guides you
see around campus)
· JSU (the Jewish Student Union, we've had
numerous brothers active in positions including the two most
recent Presidents)
· IFC (the Inter-Fraternity Council, we've had
brothers in leadership roles including this year's Scholarship
Director)
· UF's Hockey and Volleyball teams (we're also
manly) ...and far too many other organizations to
list, I'm getting tired of typing by now.
What else
should I know about Alpha Epsilon Pi?
AEPi is one of the largest fraternities on UF's campus (it
is, we have real numbers to prove it). In addition, it is one of
the most active and involved fraternities on campus, involved in
more activities, groups and other organizations then you could
imagine. Joining AEPi, you get more than just a bunch of brothers,
you get a family. The options of what you can do with your time
here are limitless, and we seek to provide you with an even
greater scope of things to choose from. You don't have to get
involved in every aspect of the fraternity, but we try to provide
every opportunity for you to get involved in the house, on-campus,
and in other organizations.
Most importantly, the house and brothers of AEPi are among
the most warm and welcoming people in the world. The doors of the
house are always open (that's metaphorical, since it's 147 degrees
Fahrenheit in Florida during the summer; but obviously if you
knock we will let you into the air conditioning), and the doors to
every brother's room are always open as well. Do yourself a favor,
come out and meet us (during the summer, during the fall, we don't
care when), and we promise a more enjoyable and exciting college
career!
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